Grace Mends Fragile Things

Before I started the Where and What is Beauty? series I ran the idea past Bishop Jake. I’ve been keen for Jake to contribute all along; he’s been really busy and suggested a post for reblogging. I’ve been holding off until I felt the time was right and now’s the time because Mending Fragile Things is a natural fit with what I’ve been sharing with you recently, and its beautiful.

This was published 14 April, 2017 on Jake’s blog Looking for God in Messy Places which was before I even started blogging – Jake was way ahead of the curve.

I’ve reformatted the article a bit, and found the first image on Pixabay. The others were in the original article and I omitted some images.

Mending a fragile thing reveals the deep love that its owner has for the object…

Mending Fragile Things

From:   Mending Fragile Things  |  Bishop Jake Owensby


“The world breaks everyone and afterward many are [beautiful] in the broken places.”

In A Farewell to Arms, this sentence reads that some are “strong” in the broken places. But I have substituted the word “beautiful” for Hemingway’s own choice, because today we are talking about the resurrection.

Resurrection is the climax of the story of grace. But before explaining how this is so, let’s look at Matthew’s account of Jesus’ resurrection.

In the predawn light of the third day, the two Marys—Mary Magdalene and the other Mary—crept through the fading shadows to see Jesus’ tomb. An angel was loitering at the scene, perched on the stone that he had rolled away from the entrance.

He said, “You are looking for Jesus who was crucified. He is not here; for he has been raised.” (Matthew 28: 5b-6) It was a lot for those two to take in. It’s a lot for me to take in, to be honest.

The angel is saying something like this: If you’re looking for Jesus’ battered corpse, you’re just not going to find it. It’s not here. It’s not anywhere. His corpse hasn’t been moved. It’s been transformed. Jesus isn’t a corpse anymore.

You can catch up with him in Galilee, but don’t go looking for the pre-crucifixion Jesus, either. Once you lay your eyes on him, you can see for yourself. Nails leave a mark, after all. Just like everything else. What Jesus endured made him who he is. But none of that disfigures him. Grace has been at work. God has mended him.

The wounds of the cross are woven together with all that unique stuff that makes Jesus, well, Jesus: the tender moments on his mother’s knee, candlelit dinner with Mary Magdalene, fishing with Peter and Andrew, embracing a startled leper.

Grace has done its finest, most surprising work yet. Grace has mended the fragile body of Jesus.

In her recent book Hallelujah Anyway, Anne Lamott briefly compared grace to the Japanese art form Kintsugi. I think it’s an especially apt illustration for the resurrection.

kintsugi-potKintsugi is the art of repairing broken pottery. Artisans mend the chips and cracks of bowls and saucers, pitchers and jars using lacquer mixed with gold dust.

Initially you might assume that the artists are trying to disguise the damage to a piece of pottery by covering it with gold leaf. But these artists aren’t trying to hide anything. They realize that the gold-infused lacquer will effectively draw the eye to the very places where the object has been cracked.

They intend to highlight the broken places. Beauty emerges from the distinctive broken places of each individual object.

Here in the West we’ve received the Greek notion of beauty. We prize flawless harmony and proportion. Flaws diminish the value of a work of art.

Not so for the Japanese.

Wear and cracks and breaks tell the story of each unique thing’s life. Beauty is not found in something’s original, pristine condition. An object’s value lies in the life it has lived. And living always comes with some wear and no small amount of damage.

Rather than hide the broken places from us, the Japanese artists want us to recognize that we are looking at a broken object that has been mended. Mending a fragile thing reveals the deep love that its owner has for the object. It is held too dear to discard, no matter how much damage it has endured.

As I said earlier, resurrection is the climax of the story of grace. In the end, grace mends fragile things.

In the beginning, grace brings into being a universe of tender, fragile things.

Grace abides with these delicate, vulnerable creatures as they grow and mature. As they pass from youthful powers to fading sight, hairy ears, and turkey necks. As they stumble and gasp for breath and howl from the pain of wounded flesh and shattered hearts.

statue-repaired-with-the-japanese-art-kintsugiGod never intended for the fragile things of this world to retain the pristine condition of a newborn. The living God means for us to live. And living inevitably brings with it wear and breakage.

And so grace reaches its climax by mending fragile, beloved things. That’s what we mean by resurrection.

In the resurrection, God mends the shattered Jesus. And in Jesus’ resurrection, we see the promise of our own.

Now, of course, the resurrection points to life after this life. When we breathe our last, our life—our whole life—will continue on the far shore of eternity. Mended.

But that mending gets its start already right here on planet earth. Sometimes it happens in three days. Sometimes it happens in three hours or three weeks or three decades.

Christ mends the wounds inflicted on us by strangers and lovers, by family and friends, even the blunt force trauma we’ve managed to give ourselves.

None of this is magic. The really big mending projects take a lot of time and no small amount of cooperation by us. And if the truth be told, a lot of our most important mending will continue when we pass from this life to the next.

And so, in the meantime, Jesus would very much like it if we could give ourselves and each other a break. We are all terribly fragile and already more than a little damaged.

God loves each of us too much to even think about discarding us. In the resurrection, we see that God eventually mends fragile things like you and me. And the result is breathtakingly beautiful.

— Bishop Jake Owensby

About Bishop Jake

I’ve copied this from Jake’s ‘About’ page on his blog — Liz

Life is messy. And you’ll find God right in the middle of it. That’s the Jesus message.

I write this blog to reflect on how Jesus brings healing and recovery and peace. Reconciliation and forgiveness and justice. My hope is that what I write will support you in your own reflections.

I’m the fourth Bishop of the Episcopal Church in Western Louisiana. My wife Joy and I live amid the the long leaf pines of the Kisatchie National Forest along the banks of Kincaid Lake outside Alexandria, Louisiana. We have three adult children and a Terrier-Lab-Hound mix named Gracie.

Reblogged by Liz; Exploring Colour (2018)

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    1. Oh, as I listened to this and looked at the montage, there were (happy) tears. Note for anyone else reading this thread: this youtube link Louise has provided is really wonderful and well worth the visit. Enjoy!

      Many thanks Louise!

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  1. This is so beautiful, that I have returned three times to read it! What an amazing and uplifting piece. I went to Bishop Jake’s blog and one of the first things that I saw…his book “Your Untold Story”! Have you read any of the Bishop’s books? Thank-you for sharing this post and Bishop Jake!

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    1. I haven’t but that’s because I read so much at Jake’s blog – not only the posts since I started following him but many of the older posts too. I haven’t yet got around to reading one of his books so if you do, before me, then please tell me all about it! Ellen, your appreciation, evident in your comment, means the world to me – thank you ever so much!


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